And so it happens again: exploding emotions from the other side the cause of which I don't know anything about. Hay. I think I am falling for the wrong persons. They would rather keep it to themselves, whatever angst they have, than lash it out upon you and make you face the consequence. My philosophy has always been simple, let the other know what's eating you up inside so that s/he may help or ask for forgiveness for whatever it is that s/he has done. But to keep the other in the dark not only prevents a solution to the problem, it also subjects the other to guesswork, misapprehension of facts and psychological torture.
Everything becomes better if and when people communicate to the other what needs be said. If not, any foundation, no matter how good, will crumble to the ground and shall destroy whatever good things there may have been shared.
And that's sad.
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